If you want your mate to listen to your career concerns then you will also have to listen to theirs. Just remember that building a bridge of understanding is going to take one step at a time. Don`t stray from the path that you have chosen even though the grass looks greener in another pasture. And don`t try to rush things. Remember patience helps bring the natural order of balance to things. Trust your instincts and take it slow, everything will fall into place at the right moment.