Büty Salon - Hammersmith Testimonials

Every year I started on various New Year Resolutions, promising to be a better person, work harder, be more focused, love and cherish life. At some point I dumped all, returning to square 1: a semi-depressed mother with obscure mind and lacking serenity. Even loving my child and adoring my partner, there’s a gap to be filled in my brain/heart/soul. I tried many things, but never finding peace. Once again, I’m making a bid to find peace through tantra allowing a year to see change. Why tantra? After studying/ practicing various philosophies (shaping the current “I”, failing to bring change), I returned to a special person who offered his help years ago. Then, I rejected his offer and 8 years on I found him again: “When the student is ready the master appears” suits my case well. Having an interest in Eastern philosophies, through late teenagehood, I was obsessed with Osho’s teachings, whose spiritual path combined elements of Hinduism, Buddhism, Taoism, Christianity and other religious/philosophic traditions, humanistic psychology, meditation; then embracing Islamic philosophy and practice. Searching again, I met Mal (London’s pioneer tantric therapist) in 2003. We talked about my interest in Eastern philosophies, constant search for elusive love and satisfaction. He suggested I explore tantra. Though open -minded and excited, after the first session I felt overwhelmed and unable to cope with the tsunami of emotions - instead of returning to Mal, I suppressed my emotions for years. I decided to seek Mal's advice 8 years later. This time, clear about my questions/needs, I was ready for the long journey to reach my goal (in fact my ultimate) to achieve serenity and love. I was offered a tantric journey that promises to bring the healing - I am up for it. I’ll be seeing my master 3 times a month, about 40 times a year. I will be posting my reflections of every single training session and perhaps additional postings of my own mini researches on tantric life.

Great relaxed atmosphere. Lovely lovely efficient staff. Delicious product. Great service at Buty Salon

I have just had an excellent deep tissue massage and feel relaxed and invigorated afterwards and so would recommend Buty Salon to others

"Mal is a very kind and sensitive healer, utilising a marriage of his excellent massage skills, pure
energy and loving kindness."

"Mal's tantric training has helped me to relax and recieve pleasure much more easily. I am now
experiencing multiple orgasms with my boyfriend."

"I strongly recommend Mal's sacred yoni massage for all women!"

"I was scared. I mean really scared... I also knew that I was not willing to live life as a non-sexual
woman any more. Every day reminders that I can't enjoy sex like others can. Knowing that every
relationship was doomed. I am half way through the treatment with Mal. At the beginning he said
"Don't trust me - let me earn that trust," and he did. Only half way and I have discovered lust,
pleasure and hope that I can enjoy a full sexual relationship. Mal does his job to the highest
professional standards."

To have a healing session with Mal is to invite the darkness and shadows of your fear around your
body and the feminine, sexual self, into the light. I knew when I heard of his work through Maya F,
that his special Yoni Massage was something I wanted to experience. I think I was going through a
period of "needing" to be seen by men and recognized as someone to love. Of course it wasn't
happening, as the unspoken signal I was sending out, acted as a deterrent to the right kind of man. I
felt pent-up and unsure of the "why's" surrounding it and seeing Mal was a lucid surrender.
I left a lot of things behind with the decision to see him and I knew even before the healing, that I
wanted to experience the session completely. Before I arrived, though, I was feeling shy and even
guilty around the idea. I was early for my appointment and he was still working, so I sat on the
street corner by a tree and just looked at the sky and waited. Having these moments, gave me time
to reflect on what it is I was seeking and why. When he sent a message saying I could come around,
I was more relaxed and ready.
As we sat together cross-legged in his sanctuary with candles and music, a calm came over me and I
knew that this man could hold me in a place that maybe no man ever had. He was so thorough and
trusting and gentle. He asked me if I felt prepared to have the full Yoni Massage and I knew this
was the whole reason I was sitting before him--so without hesitating I said 'yes'. Truly, this was one
of the greatest gifts to myself, to have asked for--and to have received. There was never a moment
of fear, angst or worry. He explained that he would first work with the whole of my body to do a
healing massage and then into the realms of release.
The experience of being with a man who was not your partner, who was not a doctor and yet was
working in a healing way with your body that was sensual, but not sexual, was a new kind of
extraordinary.

Dear Mal,
I saw you on Friday evening. Thank you so much for your wonderful knowledge.
I came to you at my lowest ebb. Your treatment was like receiving / experiencing a little bit of
heaven. As the minutes moved on - the scales dropped off - I can vaguely see through the crack into
the light.
I have had an intermittent head-ache over the weekend but also feel more grounded, less stressed,
and optimistic.
I notice that you do 30 minute sessions of chanting with sounds - Toning is what you mentioned I
needed as part of my process.
Please may I make an appointment for a Friday or Monday whenever you can fit me in?
I also mentioned that I am a massage / psycho and hypnotherapist. - and so as you can imagine - I
am already thinking that I would like to move towards asking you to under-take to be my teacher
and guide along the process - but all in the fullness of time, when you think I am ready. In the mean
time I look forward to seeing you as much as I can afford. At the moment I don't even have a job -
or a divorce!
If any of your students ever need a body to work on please may I volunteer?
So all in all many doors will now open, I look forward to the process.
Thank you again for your time, expertise, patience, and kindness.
Hugs and love Jan

My journey so far...
I have always enjoyed giving massage and making people feel relaxed....then I discovered
Tantra. I had read a lot about it and never knew what all the hype was all about until
receiveing a beautiful Tantric Massage from Mal Weeraratne.
Having been brought up in a strict upbringing where sexuality is viewed in a negative way
my experience of sexuality was supressed. Mal helped me to work on my chakras -
especially my Heart chakra - the ability to love freely without fear or self consciousness,
and my Crown chakra to help with fear and depression.

Embarking on a Tantric Healing Journey takes courage. Your healer needs to be a master
in their field and also to be kind, caring and infinitely patient. Mal has these qualities in
abundance. I am really grateful to Mal for his help and guidance in helping me let go of
some some-long held blocks